Being a master is more than being in control of another person. Everyone's ego can appreciate a good domination. But being a master is as much about self control and exploration as it is about domination.
An effective Master guides their subs and are aware of their physical and mental status at all times. If you only break a sub without re-shaping them, then you have accomplished very little. A sub or slave is devoted to serving your needs. To serve their's, you only need to accept their offering. Ignoring this aspect will lessen the effect of Mastering.
Don't mistake domination versus sexual position. As a bi-sexual Master, I enjoy being fucked as much as fucking. This doesn't change my role, just my position.
Don't use toys or devices on subs without some knowledge of it's use and limits. Keep those limits in mind. As Master's we push our subs just pass their comfort zone. This is where trust is key and without it, little success will be accomplished.
A Master is about self control, being centered, and feeling good about your domination. Is this just a fetish that occurs in the bedroom (or dungeon) but is left in room afterwards. The other lifesyle is to live in BDSM lifestyle 24/7. I have personally done both through the years and currently leave it in the dungeon as I
have a great partner that meets my needs for a relationship.
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