Wednesday, October 8, 2014
But never session is the same. Sometimes I you need music that fits the boy's worship and a steady beat for the use of belting, whips, zippers, and cock and ball torture. A more general rock beat is needed at this type. Since I LOVE playing with boys (um, over 18 years of age, people) , they prefer more of a tech beat to their session. And again, since I LOVE to play my boys, I must say the tech music really get's their ass into the beat.
But not all toys are based on swinging or need for a constant beat. Fire music (which tech can really be effective in a dungeon) and electric play requires yet another type of music. You still want the undertone of industrial, but is more melancholy.
Bondage depends on the type of bondage. Rope bondage needs a steady soft flow as time will pass during the knotting. However, chain the bitch to the wall with restraints and the mood is definately highented and either a steady session or dark session could occur.
That is what my app the BDSMusic: Protos is all about. A collection of music by session type to be able to immediately focus on their session and not the music.
Monday, October 6, 2014
I love fire play. The use of fire, skin, and sex leads to a very enjoyable part of a day. Currently I like fie cupping over the wand as it takes A LOT of practice to precise fire payment and the control of that fire.
I love teaching. Teaching fire play takes several sessions and a lot of patience. I always use myself as their first person experience. I share things like "your leaving fire going too long, too short, and the painful acknowledgement that it's burning and hurting like hell.
I'm posting a video I shot of where the fire got out of control and gave me 1st degree burns. Unfortunately, I didn't do the same steps with my partner as I do with trainees. Im posting the mistake to show newbies and remind the experts of the risks of fire play when not properly trained.